Men and Women Can’t Be Friends?[Quickie Conversation 13]


This week we delve into the age old question of whether men and women can truly be just friends. Some guys believe there has to be an attraction there for them to give friendship a chance. Tune in to see what we believe.


3 thoughts on “Men and Women Can’t Be Friends?[Quickie Conversation 13]

  • February 14, 2016 at 2:37 PM

    I think men and women can be strictly friends without having sex. It’s totally possible. Men and women communicate differently so a woman is not going to be the same type of friend to her male friends that she is with her female friends.

    I can appreciate what JT was trying to say, when he did that women talk too much or as too many questions, because we tend to want to see the whole story when we are discussing something. Men might tell another man, ”Bruh, I got fired from my job today. Had to beat this dudes ass and got thrown out.” The other dude might say, “I think my job is doing interviews on Friday.”
    ”Sweet, I will check that out.” And the conversation is done. Women on the other hand, will want to know what was so damn offensive that you had to throw hands where you work? And was it worth it? And then check you about the importance of exercising self control because obviously you forgot! LOL And then put you on to another job lead. See, its not us being chatty for no reason, that’s how we express that we care because we don’t want to see you lose another job over something that could have possibly been avoided.

    This is where our communication differences come in, when you use words like “I can talk to you about what’s bothering you, but I don’t have to care.” Being a friend is about caring about what the other person is going through. If you don’t care then you are not their friend. You don’t have to live in your friends problems with them, but being a shoulder they can lean on or a person they can come to when something is bothering them is caring about them. Men do it too, if your guy just broke up with his girl and he is depressed about it and you and your other friends take him out to get him out of the house. If he needs a place to stay and you let him crash on your couch for a few days. Whether through actions or just being an ear, that shows you care and you want to see them do or get better. You can’t call yourself a friend to anyone make or female if you can see them go through trials and tribulations and not offer one once of help in any sort of capacity, that is caring. Taking it home with you and making their problems your problems to where now you are upset and obsessing over it just as much as they are, that’s something else less healthy than caring about a friend.

  • February 14, 2016 at 2:41 PM

    Sorry, I am the typo Queen, but I am sure you get what I am trying to say. 🙂

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